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Bethany's avatar

As a newlywed, my husband noted that I was not a "go with the flow" type of person (not surprising from an only child who didn't marry until 30). I sat with this observation for a long time, and the image that finally came to me was one of the dutiful animals you name above: the beaver. "She doesn't go with the flow," I told my husband. "She works hard to create a home, and in doing so changes the flow of the river itself." That continues to be a guiding image for my life and work, although I confess that my conscientiousness (always one of my highest traits on all assessments), has suffered over the last few years. Like you, Peco, I also finished my work early in third grade so that I would have time to daydream.That strategy served me well through my 20s, which I spent earning a PhD and taking a post as a literature professor. But with three children (one in a hybrid homeschool), the laundry, the dishes, the suppers, the 'oikosdespoting" (1 Timothy 5:14) no amount of diligence ever yields the time I once treasured to create. There are ways, of course (I write this having risen at 5 to write), but it has been the greatest loneliness I've ever known, trying to create with neither colleagues nor local community to encourage and support.

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Stephen Verchinski's avatar

I'd rather feed the human being with food as energy needed to create than a 20 million square foot AI data center in Utah that will require a gigawatt of power plants to be "creative".

Liked this piece. I use Firefox BTW. Been plodding to get off of the Gates Microsoft and will do so soon..

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